Get Your Ex Back – Avoid These 5 Things Like The Plague

If you can’t quite come to terms with your recent split and are suffering. There are a couple thing that you simply must not do if you have designs to get your ex back. Most people will end up doing one or the other of these simply because they know no different.

1 – Telling lies to others about your ex

This little no-no will put an end to any possible chance you have of getting them back. If they were spreading lies about you, how would you feel about that? I know I would be gutted. And as far as I was concerned my recent ex is definitely going to stay that way…my ex!

2 – Trying to make your ex feel jealous

This tactic can work if you know what you are doing and when to use it. But jumping straight in after a breakup and trying to make them jealous will just make them feel all the more distant from you. You can easily get the wrong reaction here, instead of a little jealousy they may just feel disgust and decide it’s over for ever.

3 – Behaving like a stalker

We shouldn’t even have to say anything about stalking but just in case we do. At best you are going to come across as needy and clingy, which isn’t going to help. Worst case scenario you can get your self into trouble with the law, possibly even a jail sentence. Imagine what that’d do to your chances.

4 – Getting revenge on your ex

Revenge may be sweet but if revenge is on your mind do you really want to get them back? Getting revenge in any way shape or form on your ex must mean you don’t really love them as much as you claim to. You simply don’t hurt the one you love.

5 – Pestering them with calls or texts

Now even though this could fall into the stalker bracket it’s a different ball game altogether. Calling and texting constantly can be seen as a form of mental torture. Trust me this is not how you wanna come across. Best case scenario they ignore the calls, worst case they change their number. Then you’ve screwed any chance of future contact.

You now know a few things to avoid doing if you have desires to get your ex back. There are many things you can do to increase your chances but alas these aren’t them

A good bit of advice is to take a bit of time to get your head together and formulate a proper plan. Get your head in shape and you have a far better chance of getting your ex back.

I used a step by step system to get my wife back when I was going through a bad breakup.

Getting your ex back is a choice, not a chance.

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